I met Marla, also known as Masha in Perfumeland, a few years back when we were both writing for Perfume Smellin’ Things. I commented on a review of hers and she kindly emailed me later to offer a sample of said fragrance since she thought I might enjoy it. That perfume was one of the my most “formative” experiences as a blogger and person: Bertrand Duchaufour’s creation for Frapin, 1697. Marla was still living in Germany then, she was a personal friend of Bertrand and even facilitated an email conversation with him where he let me know that he loved my take on 1697 as it was what he had intended with the perfume. (Can you imagine little quivering me reading that email, completely starstruck, but happy?)
I have to thank Marla for this lovely memory. The two of us stayed in contact when she moved back home to the US after decades in Europe. From the alps to the tropics, a major change of lifestyle.
Marla is a former nurse, an artist, a writer, a mother of three, she is trying her hand at perfumery and has falled hard for gardening and botany lately. Here is her own introduction to this week’s interview:
A semi-retired perfumista living with a bunch of weird plants and animals on a sand dune somewhere in the subtropics.
A good day starts with… an embarrassingly large mug of coffee! I keep trying to cut down, but every time I do, some new study comes out saying coffee is really healthy. It is, right? Of course it is!
I’d never leave the house without… my car keys. Americans drive everywhere, even to the neighbor’s! I don’t much like driving myself, but when in Rome….
I always feel good when… I’m creating something new. Finding new ways to paint, new techniques for ceramics, or thinking up a new perfume formula really make my day wonderful. If I can’t make things, I get rather grumpy. People avoid me and my plants droop.
My favorite thing in the world is… a toss-up between perfume, plants, and paint! So my painting/pottery studio is full of plants and perfumes. That’s my heaven.
The next thing I want to buy is… a home essential oil distiller. I’ve tinctured myself silly and I’m ready to move on to the big leagues.
The place I always come back to is… my own head. I’m a Buddhist, so every day I meditate and return to my “monkey mind”, trying to figure out how it works. And I have to say I have absolutely no idea….
My personal style is… covered in paint. Even after a fresh mani, I’ll show up at a restaurant with paint splotches all over my fingernails. Paint sploshes on shoes, purse, nose….
My favorite perfume is… Angel, though I don’t wear it much, it’s so strong. My youngest son gave me a bottle after he recovered from a severe illness. Angel reminds me of how, among the people we love, we are each other’s angels.
When I travel I always… nervously check to make sure my passport and visas are in order; I can be a bit scatterbrained about packing. My sons have also got me into those handheld game thingies. I can’t imagine standing in a security line at the airport without “Plants vs. Zombies”!
To relax I need… solitude, some time to meditate, and to practice Reiki.
When I have a bad day… I’ve been described as a “Teddy Bear with Rabies”. Tragic but true!
I like to gift people with… the things I love to make, like perfume, soap, jewelry, quilts, and so on. I’m happy to give Reiki on demand. I love receiving handmade gifts too, because they’re from the heart! I don’t care if they’re funny or a little wonky. It’s the love that counts.
I find my inspiration… in the natural world, always. In Europe, it was the Alps and the Dolomites. Here, it’s the beach, of course.
Something I would never want to miss… is spotting a Skunk Ape! This is a wily and elusive cryptid from Central Florida. I’ve smelled them and heard them in the forest (I think), but never captured one on film…. Imagine a tincture of Skunk Ape fur!
My last mistake was… ahem! I am like Mary Poppins, practically perfect. I couldn’t make a mistake. Move this interview along, please!
In my fridge there is always… some strange new experimental dish I’ve made that nobody wants to eat and I don’t have the heart to throw away. (This answers the previous question as well.)
On my nightstand I keep… perfume, jewelry, fresh water, a notepad and pen. So in case I have a heart attack at night, or there’s a hurricane, I can get myself looking decent and write my last words before all hell breaks loose and the emergency crews arrive. Not that I’m an anxious person….
The perfect weekend starts with… working in the garden and assurances I don’t have to drive anywhere!
My role model is… his Holiness the Dalai Lama. His actions and words always inspire me. I also love James Thurber and Mark Twain for their darkly drole views of American life.
Something I always want to be asked in questionnaires like this is... “Why are you so very short?”
Why is she indeed?
I think I could live without Skunk Ape tincture, but I wouln’t mind a bit of Reiki to relax my long-suffering neck and shoulders.
Marla is someone I respect immensely for her creativity, she DOES stuff, instead of talking about it. Defintely a role model for me.
What qualities do you admire/envy in your friends?